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LOVE LIFE: A Cherokee Legend

Do you know the legend of the Cherokee Indian youth's rite of Passage?

His father takes him into the forest, blindfolds him an leaves him alone. He is required to sit on a stump the whole night and not remove the blindfold until the rays of the morning sun shine through it. He cannot cry out for help to anyone.



Once he survives the night, he is a MAN.

He cannot tell the other boys of this experience, because each lad must come into manhood on his own.

The boy is naturally terrified. He can hear all kinds of noises. Wild beasts must surely be all around him . Maybe even some human might do him harm. The wind blew the grass and earth, and shook his stump, but he sat stoically, never removing the blindfold. It would be the only way he could become a man!



Finally, after a horrific night the sun appeared and he removed his blindfold.

It was then that he discovered his father sitting on the stump next to him. He had been at watch the entire night, protecting his son from harm.



We, too, are never alone.
Even when we don't know it, God is watching over us, Sitting on the stump beside us.
When trouble comes, all we have to do is reach out to Him.



Moral of the story:
Just because you can't see God,
Doesn't mean He is not there.
"For we walk by faith, not by sight."

LOVE LIFE: Just For Laughs • Family Problem

Two men, one American and an Indian were sitting in a bar drinking shot after shot


The Indian man said to the American 'You know my parents are forcing me to get married to this so called homely girl from a village whom I haven't even met once.' We call this arranged marriage. I don't want to marry a woman whom I don't love... I told them that openly and now have a hell lot of family problems'

The American said, talking about love marriages... I'll tell you my story. I married a widow whom I deeply loved and dated for 3 years. 'After a couple of years, my father fell in love with my step-daughter and married her, so my father became my son-in-law and I became my father's father-in-law

Legally now my daughter is my mother and my wife my grandmother. More problems occurred when I had a son. My son is my father's brother and so he is my uncle

Situations turned worse when my father had a son. Now my father's son, my brother is my grandson. Ultimately, I have become my own grandfather and I am my own grandson.. And you say you have family problems...

The Indian fainted…

LOVE GOD: The Power of Fasting


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Retrieve from Pastor Kong Hee's Blog

I have been fasting regularly since 1986. In the early days, I would fast once a week for 24 hours, from 6:00 a.m. on Wednesday to 6:00 a.m. on Thursday. However, since 2004, I have been going on 21-day full fasts once every 6 months. Once, in 2007, I fasted for 40 days.

Many people have asked me, “Kong, why do you fast so often?” This blog is dedicated to that question. There are many wonderful benefits of fasting:

1. Biological: The physical benefits fasting has toward the body have been so well documented that even non-Christians these days fast regularly for better health. According to World Health Net, a study by researchers at the University of California, Berkeley, shows that regular fasting can reduce risk of cancer, cardiovascular diseases, diabetes, insulin resistance, immune disorders, and more generally, the slowing of the aging process, and the potential to increase maximum life span.

In Japan, “fasting clubs” are now in vogue. A June 16, 2003, issue of Newsweek states that “for decades Japanese doctors have treated obesity, diabetes and some psychiatric illnesses with fasting.”

During a fast, the body takes the opportunity to eliminate a lot of toxins (harmful substances) that have been built up over the years. The toxins are predominantly stored in fat and mucous cells. The body is “resetting” itself. A common detoxification reaction is headaches. This occurs because the toxins in the blood cause it to thicken and hence cause a headache. A simple remedy is to drink more water or have a bowel movement. In fact, a three-day fast has been used as a standard means of detox recommended by nutritionists the world over.



In America, it is now common to have a 28-day detox program. Books such as Get Healthy Through Detox and Fasting: How to Revitalize Your Body in 28 Days by Don Colbert, and New Again! The 28-Day Detox Plan for Body and Soul by Anna Selby, describe detoxification plans which remove harmful toxins from the body and revitalize it.

2. Spiritual: There are a number of very good reasons why we Christians should fast:

a. Breaking the power of the carnal flesh. Our fallen nature is so tightly linked to the physical appetites of our human body. The more inordinately we yield to our physical drives (such as hunger, sleep, sex), the more we embolden the carnal nature of our undisciplined flesh. Apostle Paul himself was fully aware of the power of the flesh, and constantly disciplined his body “to bring it into subjection” (1 Cor. 9:27). One of the ways he did this was “in fastings often.” (2 Cor. 11:27). As I deprive my body of its craving for food, I am taming my flesh and bringing it into subjection to my spirit. By the end of my fasting period, I often find myself more spiritual, more heavenly minded, more in tune with God, and more sensitive to His voice. In fact, the Scripture records that the reason the church leaders of Antioch were so sensitive to the voice of the Holy Spirit, concerning His plan to reach the Gentile world, was a direct result of prayer and fasting (Acts 13:2).

b. Self-humbling before the Lord. This is the reason why the saints in the Bible fast (Ps. 35:13). They were reminding themselves that they were weak in their own human strength to achieve the big visions and goals that God had set before them. The spirit is indeed willing, but the flesh is weak (Matt. 26:41). Therefore if our God-ordained dream is going to happen, it must be by a supernatural work of the Lord.

Fasting heightens that awareness. When I fast, I feel so weak in myself. I can’t workout in the gym. I can’t run five km (three miles) each day. After every service during my 21-day fasting season, I often felt like “crashing.” I would then cry out to the Lord, “Jesus, I can’t do it, please help me by the power of Your Holy Spirit!” God will always give grace to the humble (James 4:6; 1 Peter 5:5).

c. Increasing the anointing level. Jesus says that certain demons can’t be expelled except by prayer and fasting (Matt.17:21). Last month at the Kuala Lumpur Emerge (our annual youth conference in Malaysia), many commented that the preaching of the Word and the ministry time were some of the best they have ever had. Honestly, I didn’t feel any different. In fact, I felt I didn’t preach too well in a couple of the sessions because I was tired due to my long fast. However, many attendees sent me text messages and emails to say that their lives were so impacted and irrevocably changed. As I reflect on this, I can clearly see that God Himself was doing the work. He had so anointed my voice and let His power flow freely through the laying on of my hands. The presence and power of God made a huge difference in my time at KL.

3. Revival & Church Growth: In the Bible, whenever the people of God stopped fasting, they became dull and complacent. However, when a fast was decreed, the whole nation underwent revival and deliverance (2 Chr. 20:3-25; Esther 4:16; Ezra 8:21; Jonah 3:5-10). Last month, I fasted and prayed for three specific purposes: (1) 30 percent growth in every pastoral zone, (2) CHC to get its 10,000-seat arena in the city, and (3) my wife Sun to excel in her American singing career. Fasting greatly adds spiritual momentum to my prayer and faith.

What to Do When You Fast?

* If you have a sickness, if you are pregnant, or if you are a nursing mother, please don’t fast.

* If you have a history of weak health, please seek medical advice beforehand if you want to fast.

* If you are on regular medication, please consult a doctor before you fast.

* If you can’t fast throughout the week, just go for a three-day fast. But please don’t fast intermittently (stopping a few meals, eating a few meal) as this will affect the rhythm of your gastric flow and may hurt your body. Once you start fasting, don’t eat until you have finished the fast.

* You must drink a lot of water when you fast. Be careful of juices and beverages (such as, coffee) that may give you gastric problems because of the acids they contain. For some people, milk may result in a lot of gas. Yoghurt may cause stomach rumblings, and is generally considered food. The best is electrolytes like 100-Plus, H-2-0, Pocari, et cetera. You need the minerals contained in them during a fast. Drinking clear soup in moderation is good when you need extra energy for work or ministry.

* Don’t do anything strenuous like run 10 km, house-moving, dance performances, etc. Adopt a commonsense approach to fasting.

* Brush your teeth often as you will tend to have bad breath (again, due to the release of toxins). I normally carry a toothbrush and toothpaste everywhere I go when I am fasting.

* Most of all, when you fast, try to start or end the day with a time of deep personal devotion and prayer. Fasting must go with prayer. Otherwise, it is just dieting or a “hunger strike.”

How to Break a Fast?

After fasting, always begin with a light meal, even if you have fasted for only a short period of time. Don’t begin with anything too greasy, fatty or heavy.

The next thing to keep in mind is that the longer the fast, the more gradual it takes to break it. Somebody has said that you must take as long a time to break your fast as you do the period of fasting. When you have fasted for a long time (over three weeks), your stomach becomes like that of a baby’s. Feed yourself after that fast as you would a baby. It may take up to a week to get back to consuming normal food.

When you are in a fast, you usually don’t feel so hungry after the first three days. However, when you start to eat again, your hunger comes back. That is when you must really hold on to yourself. Exercise self-control. Fasting causes your stomach to contract. It is unwise to expand it again to the same extent. Fasting is a great way to change our eating habits, which many of us need to do. However, if you are planning to slim down or reduce your weight, fasting alone will not do that normally. You will get a few kilos off, but you will put them on just as quickly unless you combine it with a changed program of eating and exercise.

LOVE FASHION: Lex Low FUTURUS; HEREAFTER

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Last Sunday we all gather at Church at night to support Lex's (my hair and makeup ministry senior) graduation hair show. I was actually nearly overslept from taking an afternoon nap, but fortunately was alerted by one of my friend's wake up call. (whew!) It was a blast, the show actually delayed for half an hour, but is worth the wait.

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While waiting, i take my lousy camera phone to snap some pictures... sadly that i'm very disappointed with the quality of the images. I think is time for me to invest on a SLR that i've been long waited...ish ish...(><) Photobucket

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The show kicked off with some performances by African Choir, our own CHC Michael Jackson as well as International BeatBoxer - Shawn Lee, also our church member. Man I feel great and awesome being in such creative and colorful church, full of creative people, indeed our creator, our Lord, our Heavenly Father is a Creative God, Amen?

Following is the videos of the performances by our own City Harvest KL MJ Mr. Foo Ding Khen featuring Shawn Lee.





And after the performances is the long awaited hair show catwalk time, woohoo! I'm so impress with the models and enjoyed the background music (yes, I'm a trance freak) and to my surprise some of the models are actually our church members, only 4-5 of them are professional models outsource from outside.

Toni & Guy has been amazingly created many cool hairstyles, and i feel proud of my friend Lex that graduated from there, and of course, it will be great for me that i can learn from him as i serve in the hair and makeup ministry.



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After the show, we have some cocktails and snacks at the church lobby, snap some photos and i buzz off to the cinema to catch ASTROBOY :)

LOVE MUSIC: My ♥ ESP/LTD Guitar



Hey peeps, this is the first time i post my electric guitar here, well those who knows me well, should know that I'm a big fan of ESP/LTD guitars. I spend my hard-earned RM1,050 for this M-50 baby.



I personally was drawn to it's pointy head stock, looks kinda cool huh?





The pickup is using Humbucker pickup similar as those used in Les Pauls, suitable for playing Metal genres riffs.









My next Electric Guitar gonna be Gibson Les Paul! and I'm saving up the money for it now :)



And this is the photo of me performing live on stage with my trustworthy ESP/LTD M-50 Electric Guitar.

LOVE ARTS: Emerge Rising Fashion Competition

On 22 November 2009, Our fashion team consist of me, Jasper, Yi Zhen & Leanne were one of the 9 teams in the final. Though that we didn't win anything, but we enjoy throughout the process, and also the great friendship that have gained through this competition. Well honestly speaking, I never expected that we will be qualified for the final during the Preliminaries Round 6 weeks ago, we really give out our best, and i would like to take this opportunity to say thanks again to my teammates for all the hardworks that had put in. The theme of the Fashion Competition is "Harajuku".

Model - Yi Zhen
Designer/Assistant - Joseph
Makeup Artist - Jasper
Hairstylist - Leanne

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We started at approximate 4pm on the day and were given 90 minutes to finish our makeup, dress up, hairdo and so on... You can see everyone including me are quite stress and focus throughout...

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This is my idea on putting a wing as a tattoo on Yi Zhen's face, sadly, the concept is not strong enough, compare to the facial art that we applied during the Pre-lim round.

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And we're all ready and take a few final shots with other contestants as well as Hannah Tan (the judge on that night) before we go on stage.

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*this photo is courtesy of Jessyca

And special thanks to Hui Li for the photos, Rou-Xi my best friend for turning up and suppport me, though i let you down... and also million thanks to the ++VU++ cluster that supporting us.

Thanks for reading & See you on EMERGE 2010!!!

LOVE GOD: Asia Conference 2010 Singapore



ASIA CONFERENCE 2010!!! Here I Come!!!

26th - 30th May 2010 @ City Harvest Church EXPO hall 8

Reidhard Bonnke
Phil Pringle
AR Bernard
Kong Hee
Yonggi Cho
Steve Munsey

Gonna be awesome!! Let's us join together.