LOVE LIFE: What Destroy You?

Apparently, there's this friend of mine...well no longer a "friend" anymore... she lives in a miserably, mess up life. She often complained to me about how bad her situation is, she faces a lot of challenges in her career, life, relationship, financially and so on. After some studies of her, i realize that she doesn't have a right vision as well as a correct attitude and mindset for the things she is doing.


As a good friend, i give her some advise and offer some practical help... such as introducing some friends that can help her. Sadly, she never accept the advises and yet not willingly to step out of her comfort zone to live in a a more productive and fruitful life. She would answer me "Everyone is different, i can choose to not listen your advise!" Well, personally i think that this mindset is wrong, a right friend will voice out concern as well as giving advise to build each other up... and many times that such words are deem so uncomfortable to digest, i can't help, but these words can build a person up when you accept and apply it...

People that are reading this, please choose your friends to mix with carefully, mixing with a wrong people will destroy you, I'm not trying to say totally cut off the connection with these people, but we must be careful that not being influence by them and instead we should inspire them and lead them to the right path. Back to my topic, a person that unwillingly to step out of their comfort zone cannot grow. Many times, we can't be successful is because we have many setbacks in our life.. we should remove things that are clutter our view.

1. Sanctify yourself

2. Evaluate your present situation

3. Take Action Steps toward your vision

Unsuccessful people focus their thinking on survival, Average people focus their thinking on maintenance, Successful people focus their thinking on progress.
-John C Maxwell-